Hilton Head Island Remembers a True Community Hero: Ben Green
As the sun sets on the picturesque waters of Hilton Head Island, the reflections spark memories for many, especially for residents like Jim Reynolds. Every time Reynolds crosses the bridges of this beautiful island, his thoughts drift to a remarkable man: Ben Green. The ripple of his legacy can still be felt, as Reynolds recalls, “His fingerprints are all over it.”
A Life Well-Lived
Ben Green, affectionately known as Captain Bajaboo by friends and family, passed away on Sunday, December 8, at the age of 75. A native islander, Green wore many hats throughout his life—business owner, shrimp boat captain, philanthropist, and even a Vietnam veteran. With a heart as huge as the ocean, he was a mentor to countless individuals, regardless of age, from young children to venerable seniors, sharing wisdom that shaped their lives.
“Ben dedicated his life to service,” said Heather Rath, a long-time island resident. “He didn’t just talk the talk; he walked the walk. His love for this community was palpable.”
Bridging Generations Through Fishing
Ben was particularly well-known for his initiative, On the Hook, a fishing program he established in 2016 at the old fishing co-op located in Squire Pope Community Park. This program served as a practically iconic draw for children and families looking to engage in the time-honored tradition of fishing.
“His teaching methods connected with everyone involved,” Reynolds shared fondly. “Whether you were seven or seventy, you felt like you belonged.” Volunteers, friends, and even strangers were pulled into the warmth of the community that Ben fostered. Teaching young ones how to fish was just a vessel for deeper lessons; it was about mentorship and personal growth.
According to Ben’s son Sheldon Green, “He spent many of his weekends dedicating himself to the youth of Hilton Head. Seeing them catch their first fish was the icing on the cake—what mattered was the connections he helped create.”
Mentor, Friend, and Family
The impact Ben made on local families is immeasurable. Jayme Lopko’s children participated in the fishing program, and she reflected on how Ben imparted vital life lessons. “He taught my son that it’s not what you do; it’s how you do it,” she said. “There’s an emphasis on integrity that was invaluable.”
Even during difficult health struggles, Ben would muster the energy to be present, often sitting on the dock to greet the children as they arrived for their lessons. “His spirit was unbreakable,” Galen Miller, Ben’s cousin, expressed. “He put others before himself, always.”
A Legacy of Love and Kindness
Ben’s legacy didn’t begin with the fishing program. According to Sheldon, “That was only the tip of the iceberg.” Ben was well-known for helping families in need in quieter, perhaps less celebrated ways. He often spent Saturdays assisting with cleaning duties at local cemeteries and other community areas.
“There were no cameras, no applause. Just his way of giving back,” Sheldon said, his voice thick with emotion. It’s knowing your father led by example that shaped your understanding of heroism, he added. “My dad could work harder than any one or two men combined.”
Celebrating a Remarkable Life
Ben’s spirit and energy cast a long shadow over the Hilton Head community. As the community mourns his loss, they are also determined to carry forward his legacy of service. As Miller put it, “I plan to carry on his spirit. Ben will forever be remembered as someone who always had a winning hand in life.”
Friends and family are invited to pay their respects during a viewing on Saturday, December 14, from 5 PM to 7 PM at the Compassion Funeral Service. Ben’s life will be celebrated with a service on Sunday, December 15, at 1 PM at Mt. Calvary Missionary Baptist Church.
Though Ben Green has left this earthly realm, his heart will continue to beat within the community he so tirelessly served. He is survived by his wife, R. Maria Green, son B. Sheldon Green, granddaughter Olivia Madison Green, and many loving family members and friends. His legacy will be one of kindness, mentorship, and community—a legacy that will never fade.
